Monday, May 25, 2009

Disturbance

So I apparently need anger management now. Why?... 2 incidents happened these few months...
both have to do with knowing how to deal with an insane sibling who finds pleasure in disturbing me. Contain my anger and manage it?... I'd rather manage him to be honest.
analyze this:

whenever you wake up in the morning and that sibling's around... you may be reading, watching a movie or studying (that's usually rare but during exams it's quite often)... but every time you do these things this sibling of yours (whenever he's around) would barge into the room and either walk around your desk to see what you're doing (which I usually never give him the chance)... or play with your things (whatever he gets his eyes on).. or simply stand there in front of you talking crap while you're not in the mood and trying to concentrate on something else... and if you don't give him a face or cuss him out.. he finds anything he could to blackmail you (in the hopes of teaching you a lesson to start respecting his sorry ass).
Now imagine telling him to leave you alone and he doesn't listen... then imagine moving up to the 2nd stage of telling him to butt off and he still doesn't listen. Take your imagination to the 3rd stage and think of this happening to you every day for a whole week...
I'm sorry what?... 6 years old?... no no... he's 23 years old... you heard me right...

what were the incidents that made my anger get out of control? once I gave him a zillion warnings to leave me alone and because I was not friendly to him, he cut off the internet from me using the excuse that I was not studying (which was never his business). I had to get him back somehow... and no one was around at home to show him his limits. The only thing I saw were a pair of shoes. His most expensive ones I guess. yes yes... I destroyed them... more like cut them. You think that's extreme? It gave me the results I wanted.
my dad wasn't happy about that but my bro was told to stop disturbing me ever since (1 incident)... the 2nd incident was yesterday... when I again gave him warnings and after a long time of stubbornness from his side I took anything I saw in the table and got ready to throw it at him. He knew I would do it so he walked away saying that he'd tell my dad about this.

I wonder if any of the readers have a brother like that... those who don't... I can only confess you're much better off without it.

13 comments:

Squinty said...

God... I have a brother like that. Actually... Think of the whole house asking you about EVERYTHING as if my life is theres. They need to know EVERYTHING about me, my friends, where I will go out with them, what I am doing now, who I am talking to,...etc.
You know what I mean...

Sometimes they bother me so much that I explode! (which is rarely but turning to sometimes) And they tell me that it is "harmless" questions and is not a big deal. If i tell them I don't wamt to tell them they lecture me (parents) and my brothers would annoy the hell out of me.

From all the anger one day I exploded and told my mom I wish I get married and get out of the HOUSE! -_-

From all brothers, I am the only one who has to go through this... I don't have any privacy btw! =P

My room is like a mini-living room. As in people come and go as they please.
Once my brother wanted to see what I am doing so this is what he did:
He wanted to go to the toilet so he ran from HIS room to MY room (which is basically at the other end of the house from his room) just to use my toilet. When I asked him "why?" he said "because I wanted to."

... I wish I don't have to go through this anymore... really...

TripleTee said...

wow squinty I didn't know that... well in my case I never really answer my bro when he asks where I'm going... I tell him it's not his business... (as long as i told my parents he has no say)... but it is tiring to have to deal with this all the time... I didn't think others were going through that with more than one sibling XDXD
sorry to hear that squint... but hey... the bright side is since you're a guy... it'll be easier for you to be your own master as you grow older =D

Squinty said...

It will be easier for me to move OUT of the house! =P

I wish it is anyway... I already have a headache of what goes on! XD

Now you know there are others going through the same thing and WORSE! XD
(sometimes it is good when you hate the lonliness though)

G-chan said...

Dude...I was not expecting a 23! >.< That's shocking O.o
Damn! But you did what you gotta do! Teach him a few lessons. lol!

I still can't get over the "23"...doesn't he have other more important things to do besides tick the hell out of you?!

TripleTee said...

I keep asking him the very same thing. all he does is smile as an answer.
and ironically he complains that I'm the one who spends my time doing nothing useful.
don't all hypocrites do that...

Muggle said...

lol I thought you were talking about a little kid :P.

I don't have any older brothers, just a much younger one who acts older than his age and I love him to bits. My sisters don't really control my life so we're on pretty good terms.

lool I always wished to have an older brother but some of the stories that people tell me make me think I'm better off without one :P.

TripleTee said...

lool..that depends on the brother muggle... this one apparently thinks he's my father... so you wouldn't want that kind =P...
my performance has been keeping him away these few days however... so i'm having my peace..lol

Amarant said...

lol no thank god i dont have any of those.

but i hear about them, good luck :P

(btw i was shocked to know he's 23!!!)

TripleTee said...

thanks for passing by amarant...

yeah i know... that's why i hardly ever treat him like a grown up. lol

Anonymous said...

My brother was also the same but he stopped when he got married. He is only bored. My advice is not to show that he is annoying you or he will continue and always do the same things. If you show that its ok he will be bored and look for something else to do.

TripleTee said...

thanks anony,... I've been doing just that... took a lot of patience

Hamdy Elgammal said...

Oh my...23. WHOA!
I mean, that's pretty freaking old for such crap. I loved the cutting the shoes bit though; that must've felt good XD

Politics said...

I use to face up similar situation , but we singed unwritten non-intervention agreement .