Let me explain the situation before I head into anything. I've been living with the students of the foundation year ever since I joined uni... and the foundation year students may well be consideres amatuers. But since this is my first year I had to join them. Now that I passed the tests of the foundation and moved straight to my major... I have the choice to live with the bigger girls.
Except that I was already settled where I was... but I had a problem and still do.
The foundation year girls are loud like any you ever meet. They're LOUD in their talk, loud in the night... loud in the afternoon. there's hardly a time they're not loud... and one day it got to the extent of me marching out of my room and going after them.
Tee: would you most awefully mind being quiet
Girls: (fall silent and turn their backs talking)
Tee: You BETTER SHUT THE HELL UP
Girls: (stop in their tracks and all look at me.... dead silent)
one of the girls: There's no need to shout
Tee: is there not?
Girl: that's very disrespectful
Tee: and you shouting around the corridors is respectful surely.
(The bigger girls walk over to that girl and tell her to stop arguing with me... then they ask me to calm down... and I just walked into my room banging my door shut)
Now in that scenario I was as angry as ever....
I asked for the loud girls' names and told my stepmother I need to change dorms. She told me I've the possibility of moving in the other side of campus where the older girls are. i asked whether any rooms were free there, she answers:
mom: that doesn't matter.
Tee: so you'll kick any girl from there to give me a room? (shocked)
mom: Tee... it's honorable of you to think that way... but seriously... stop worrying about others... this is a competition... people take what they can get, not make way for others... you'll never get anywhere if you're like that.
Guys..... anyone reading this.... I think the title says it all... and I am still startled and confused. Is this the way it should be?